I looked quickly at a few of your recent losses, and saw two big flaws in your play that will prevent you from moving up the ratings ladder: not following the opening principles, and not seeing undefended pieces/pawns.
I'd focus on those two issues and see how you do. Always follow the basic opening principles, and always see undefended pieces and pawns. I'm assuming that you're just not seeing undefended stuff, and that if you do see it you would either not play the move yourself, or would capture your opponent's pawns/pieces when they are offered!
I am stuck in the mid 1200 range.It seems very hard to get to even the 1300 level. Given the same pieces and the same squares as your opponent. Why do players rated 1400 or 1700 always dominate. What do they know to do differently? Do you have to be very smart to aquire the knowledge it takes or will it eventually come?