Go old school? Every time you get mad, write the following 50 times. If fifty times doesn't do it, try 100.
Playing with a rating helps me to get an even match. When evenly matched, I should win/ lose games fairly equally. Since this makes sense, it is pointless to get really mad when I lose. I will do my best to get my feelings under control since getting mad is of no help.
Best wishes
Go old school? Every time you get mad, write the following 50 times. If fifty times doesn't do it, try 100.
Playing with a rating helps me to get an even match. When evenly matched, I should win/ lose games fairly equally. Since this makes sense, it is pointless to get really mad when I lose. I will do my best to get my feelings under control since getting mad is of no help.
Best wishes
Thank you very much for your advice! I will try to do this when I get mad, I will also try to learn from my mistakes which caused me to lose. Thank you again g
true, although sometimes I dont really make mistakes and my opponent just literally outplays me
Playing with a rating helps me to get an even match. When evenly matched, I should win/ lose games fairly equally. Since this makes sense, it is pointless to get really mad when I lose. I will do my best to get my feelings under control since getting mad is of no help.
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Dont worry about every single game, just keep playing through it forget the last game and move on to the next, take your time and relax, most people lose games they shoudlnt be losing when they have 9 mins left on a 10 min game for example, look for all possible threats, checks and sneaky moves you and your opponent can do, after a while your brain tricks you also to do it faster. Trust me there are bigger problems in the world than losing a chess game, chess after all, isnt THAT important to get mad at, talk to your opponent too, most on here are nice (unlike arrogant prix like me) lol......trust me they want you to improve as well...we are all one here.
Embrace it. You can see that even Magnus, Hikaru, and other strong players haven't eliminated rage after losing a game.
Embrace it. You can see that even Magnus, Hikaru, and other strong players haven't eliminated rage after losing a game.
ty but I am just quitting this game
fed up
Even though losing chess is frustrating, remember it has really good effects on your brain, like problem solving and many critical thinking skills. If you lose, so what? Just go back into the next one,
Even though losing chess is frustrating, remember it has really good effects on your brain, like problem solving and many critical thinking skills. If you lose, so what? Just go back into the next one,
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Do what you like, but I highly recommend persevering with the game for a little longer. If you keep on losing, then quit it. But study the game, read books and try and calm yourself if you lose. Best wishes
true, although sometimes I dont really make mistakes and my opponent just literally outplays me
I can tell from your rating, you always blunder pieces
You have the wrong mindset. I have wanted to quit before, but perceviered. When I was 1700, I lost a tournament because of a terrible arbiter. I was so mad. But I kept going, and I wanted to destroy my opponent next game we played.
You have the wrong mindset. I have wanted to quit before, but perceviered. When I was 1700, I lost a tournament because of a terrible arbiter. I was so mad. But I kept going, and I wanted to destroy my opponent next game we played.
u were 1700 while im barely holding 700
Lies, you have never gone past 1500. Dont lie about your rating when everybody can see it with one click
Lies, you have never gone past 1500. Dont lie about your rating when everybody can see it with one click
He's clearly 2000
Lies, you have never gone past 1500. Dont lie about your rating when everybody can see it with one click
He's clearly 2000
check bro
I get really mad when I lose and can't do anything, every loss makes me want to quit chess not even talking about loss streaks.