I know what tactics are, but I seem to miss them in games. How can I get in the habit?
Practice tactics. Do puzzles from books, from the Tactic Trainer here, from tactics traineter on other sites. Get familiar with as many patterns as you can and keep practicing.
Then, take a little time in your games to look for tactical continuations. One of the ideas behind doing a lot of tactics is to recognize situations in your games where the tactics might be possible, or close to possible. Then to use calculation to figure out if a tactic actually exists.
I know what tactics are, but I seem to miss them in games. How can I get in the habit?