I am 13 years old. My dad is telling me NEVER to resign. I feel like he is taking it to the extreme

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sndeww

Where to get a pipe is my question

Prometheus_Fuschs
SNUDOO escribió:

Where to get a pipe is my question

http://www.aceroselplateado.com/

sndeww

interesting

wouldn't I find wood there

Prometheus_Fuschs
SNUDOO escribió:

interesting

wouldn't I find wood there

I don't think so.

sndeww

interesting

RichardMCraven

Your father is wrong. Resignation is very respectable in chess.

Mako_Cat

March your king to the center. Self mate yourself

sndeww
Mako_Cat wrote:

March your king to the center. Self mate yourself

dat's what I said lol

sndeww

@monsterchip google "joke"

Prometheus_Fuschs
SNUDOO escribió:

@monsterchip google "joke"

"joke is a display of humour in which words are used within a specific and well-defined narrative structure to make people laugh and is not meant to be taken seriously."

 

sndeww

That would make me inspired

except it just made me depressed

Prometheus_Fuschs
TumpaiTubo escribió:

This is what we get when “everybody gets a trophy.”  Something I penned a few years ago:

“Fighting for Life

You do not need to always be comfortable.
Life is not always easy.
Pain is there for a reason.
People need to be able to fight.
Pecking orders work.
Life Isn't Fair.
If you never learn how to fight, you will never have the tools to make it through the hard times that life will bring.
Fighting for life, is life.”

I don't see how that implies you shouldn't resign...

sndeww
TumpaiTubo wrote:
SNUDOO wrote:

That would make me inspired

except it just made me depressed

Interesting that both of your responses are emotional. 

it affects my quality of chess play

Prometheus_Fuschs

Yep, I play considerably worse when I'm emotional (doesn't matter which one is it).

sndeww

I play better if I'm positive

If I'm dying inside then I don't play

JoelMohan
King_of_Checkmates wrote:

But my dad is not allowing me to resign at all. At least I should be able to ask to resign where m6 dad doesn’t unconditionally say no

he is trying to help you and the opponent might blunder 

EndgameEnthusiast2357
TumpaiTubo wrote:
SNUDOO wrote:

That would make me inspired

except it just made me depressed

Interesting that both of your responses are emotional. 

Yet you were the one who said you would beat your kid with a belt if you saw his post.

Prometheus_Fuschs
TumpaiTubo escribió:
Prometheus_Fuschs wrote:
TumpaiTubo escribió:

This is what we get when “everybody gets a trophy.”  Something I penned a few years ago:

“Fighting for Life

You do not need to always be comfortable.
Life is not always easy.
Pain is there for a reason.
People need to be able to fight.
Pecking orders work.
Life Isn't Fair.
If you never learn how to fight, you will never have the tools to make it through the hard times that life will bring.
Fighting for life, is life.”

I don't see how that implies you shouldn't resign...

It implies that there is nothing inherently wrong with fighting a battle, and on the contrary, fighting is a necessary skill set for life. When quitting (resigning) becomes the norm instead of the exception, does the game teach us to fight or quit?  Sure, retreating to fight another battle another day is a great tactic, so learning when to retreat (resign) is a necessary skill set ... just like learning when to fight. 

Anybody and everybody can quit. Not everyone learns the skills necessary to fight. 

Everyone can learn both skill sets. 

Knowing when to bail out of a fight (literally or metaphorically speaking) is also important in RL. Being brave is good, being TOO brave is being dumb.

JamieDelarosa
monsterchip wrote:
JamieDelarosa wrote:

Try hitting your Dad's kneecaps with a metal pipe.

You are insane

Just old school.

eric0022
SmartField wrote:

My coach says to never resign and I'm only 7 years old. If you resign, you won't win for sure. But even if you are down a queen, you might still have a chance to make it a draw.

 

Actually I view it differently: If I don't resign and take many more minutes or even hours to play on, then I would have missed quite a number of potential games which I could have won, all because of the extra time I took to prolong a misery.

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