Chess is chess is chess. Who cares if chess is just fun for some people? That may be all they want. Isn't a game supposed to be fun?
I've never really gotten the snobbery people approach chess with - the constant thrusting upwards of noses at anything shorter than Fide World Championships time controls, the repeated declarations that this form of chess is real while another apparently is not. Why does it matter? If you don't like it, don't play it.
You can chase the purist's ideal all you want but maybe it's time to accept that other people have different ideas and sensibilities than you do. It doesn't make them wrong or you wrong. It's never been an either/or thing no matter how much people pretend it is. The beauty of chess is that a checkered board and 32 pieces have combined to create a hobby, a pastime, a passion that contains almost infinite variety. That's something to be celebrated in my book.
Is bullet real chess ? I have feeling that there is so much luck in bullet. Just pushing your pieces and thats it. No beauty, no ideas....You even lose in won position when you run out of time. I see more and more people play only bullet chess and chess become just the fun, nothing more.