Asking for help about a game in progress is considered cheating. Ask a general question (rather than a question about a specific game) and I'll be happy to answer.
is this not Kosher?

Im not asking for what to move Im asking if I keep checking if its rude. Would the 50 repeditive move apply?
Oh ok. "Perpetual check" is not rude, it's a legitimate way to force a draw. The main rule to keep in mind is: "if the same position appears on the chessboard 3 times in the same game, the game is a draw".
Another rule states, "after 50 consecutive moves without a pawn move or piece capture the game is a draw".
Im in this position where I could just do a repeat check? Is this considererd rude?