need tip about mental and tilt cause bad opponent behavior

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kakouloukiya
ninjaswat a écrit :

Yeah, one time me and one of my friends were doing XXL chess... It was obvious I was winning so I took all of his pieces, promoted almost all my pawns to queens. He doesn't care, we both had a lot of fun doing that. If chess isn't making you have fun, then stop, take a break. It's not about rating, it's about enjoyment. A higher rating allows for more enjoyment.

exactly, i compare this situation with a total random who just enjoy put yourself down and humiliate opponent.
And after the game, my feeling was to play to put down other player, but instead, i take a break and i could play after.
My point is to get out of this tilt, but nobody seem to understand . And telling me about resigning the game.

ninjaswat
kakouloukiya wrote:
ninjaswat a écrit :

Yeah, one time me and one of my friends were doing XXL chess... It was obvious I was winning so I took all of his pieces, promoted almost all my pawns to queens. He doesn't care, we both had a lot of fun doing that. If chess isn't making you have fun, then stop, take a break. It's not about rating, it's about enjoyment. A higher rating allows for more enjoyment.

exactly, i compare this situation with a total random who just enjoy put yourself down and humiliate opponent.
And after the game, my feeling was to play to put down other player, but instead, i take a break and i could play after.
My point is to get out of this tilt, but nobody seem to understand . And telling me about resigning the game.

If you want to get out of the tilt stop playing or play something that gives you enjoyment. Read a book, watch TV, not think about hurting your opponent.

kakouloukiya
Joel_Jelly a écrit :
kakouloukiya wrote:
nTzT a écrit :

You are calling people stupid when you can't even string a coherent sentence together and you call your opponent "looser". You are just a sore loser. 

xd and you talk about people who put them into bad situation themselve.

"People always seem to make issues where there are none." You are losing you calm cause one guy telling you're stupid .
You put yourself in this situation, why do you answer me, cause you don't want help me man, your answers proof this point.
In early, you attacked me on my naivety, my disrespectful attitude, my stupid reasoning, now on my grammar, and insult me .
Who need to speak for yourself man, sincerly .

He has a point though I don't know wtf you are trying to say

Cause you don't understand why i'm talking with him like that, but i don't know why he was coming into this topic cause this answer are irrelevant, doesn't help me, worst, more i speak to him, more i know he don't understand one single thing i said, and when i tell this only this about the stupidity of his comment, he become upset with me.

nTzT

kakouloukiya
nTzT a écrit :

You are calling people stupid when you can't even string a coherent sentence together and you call your opponent "looser". You are just a sore loser. 

@nTzT i don't know if you will comeback in this topic to read cause you blocked me like a coward, but i'm sure you speak to the other guy who humiliate me cause you know what i say,i say he was loser to me with his behavior cause he was playing not to win the game but win on me . it's a problem about behavior and i understand something new.
People want other resign cause it's lose of time, but your mentality is a lose of time, when i was serious,not trolling and waited the lose.
The opponent just watch your ridiculous position and try to humiliate you cause you're bad.

I don't think i'm the real loser cause playing like that just tell something deeper about the opponent.
I'm a loser cause he tilt me and get me angry, i can accord that

DogeSaysRuff
kakouloukiya wrote:
QwertyKeyboard18 a écrit :

You could just resign the game?

why do you answer to this topic, you don't understand my problem.
and i resigned after speaking to the guy cause i was so angry he didn't wanted finish the game and telling me what i told you, it was just to humiliate me.
But you don't understand the topic because you answer is out of the question!

Dude, he can do whatever he wants, plus, it's just a game.