https://www.chess.com/forum/view/general/how-to-stay-calm-during-a-chess-tournament?page=1
My posts are currently in comment #25 and #28 if that helps
In short, you'll be fine if you just take your time and try to take in the experience. Your rating on chess.com is higher than the average OTB player, so you should figure that at least half are more nervous than you.
After just over a year getting back into chess online, I feel that I'm ready to move into the world of OTB. I've got my FIDE ID, and there's a rapid tournament in my city in a couple of weeks. The problem is, I'm worried I'll be completely overcome with nerves. I even failed to sleep before a casual tournament a couple of weeks ago, and one of the reasons why I gave up serious chess as a ten year old (I was ranked top 20 in England for my age group at my peak) was that the nerves were destroying any enjoyment I was getting out of it. It seems like 30 years later nothing has changed! Does anybody else get this? Of course, rationally I realise that absolutely nothing is riding on the tournament, but for me the fear of not doing myself justice is all-consuming. There's already the issue that I'm not so great when playing fast time controls, but the prospect of blundering a piece in public is something that I find too traumatic to contemplate! Ridiculous I know, but if anyone has any advice I'd be VERY grateful!