as an observer, chessplayer and now a paying member,thanks to ghostnight for my inclusion as regular member.please allow me to suggest to recommend ., a reconciliation forum.,for everyone.,i think we need a forum, since chesscom is a site where it is friendly,as they say it is only normal for humans to err and not be perfect in human behavior.it is not good for everyone concern to be subjected to be on trial by publicity on online whether this is done for good or bad. i read heated debates and mockery and ridiculeness. sometimes we are not at our best of moments when we do something and that is a human error. since chesscom is a friendly site,i strongly recommend a reconciliation forum for everyone who will agree to be reconciled and to say sorry,i am also human after all and not a primitive beast.
reconciliation forum
I've only got a few people mad at me, that I know of. The one above me, included. LOL
Great idea. I would like to offer my enemies the following message:
I've only got a few people mad at me, that I know of. The one above me, included. LOL
it you want to be reconciled invite the persons mad at you here in this forum. of course im not mad at you.i am always on neutral ground with no biases. would you like me to be added in your friends list?
Great idea. I would like to offer my enemies the following message:
goldendog invites detractors or enemies for a possible reconcialiation
golden dog pls add me in your friend list.
or maybe a reconciliation...room!
or maybe a reconciliation...room!
Most of them who don't like me are bung holes anyway.
uvfo needs a lot of reconciliation indeed!
He blocks anyone who disagrees with him!
I guess no one disagrees with me because I block no one.
Grow up.
uvfo needs a lot of reconciliation indeed!
He blocks anyone who disagrees with him!
as a matter of right inherent in chesscom,we are allowed to chose options for our privacy settings,may i remind you echecs that you and i from now on should be careful in our statement with what we have to say because from now on we act as mediators for reconciliation. for the records we should speak between ourselves on line.
Most of them who don't like me are bung holes anyway.
human behavior is the most difficult subject to understand,we can also learn from our detractors and , and opponents in chess. reaching another level will make us understand them.,not to become like them., forgive and forget to make you more better.
well I for one think that Benju 13's idea as put forward in this thread is a very good plan. I left my previous chess site because things there were out of control. However in order for Benju 13's idea to work people will have to put some effort into it and we would have to take this plan at face value. I want to Thank Benju 13 for this bringing idea forward and I hope that something good comes of it.
Not a bad idea.
Most of the people I've run into here are grown up enough to get over any disagreements that occur in the forums rather quickly.
well I for one think that Benju 13's idea as put forward in this thread is a very good plan. I left my previous chess site because things there were out of control. However in order for Benju 13's idea to work people will have to put some effort into it and we would have to take this plan at face value. I want to Thank Benju 13 for this bringing idea forward and I hope that something good comes of it.
thank sir cabadenwurt,i dont know yet as of now of any existing organisation on chesscom site perhaps chesscom site staff can assist us or in my suggestion for a forum for reconciliation,and volunteer members. on my part,it is only a suggestion i suggest the chesscom staff takeover for the benefit of the chess community, maybe echecs and i and you sir and all volunteer members will make their contributions as mediators to make chesscom a more friendly one.
Not a bad idea.
Most of the people I've run into here are grown up enough to get over any disagreements that occur in the forums rather quickly.
even grown ups and persons of authority can also have some disagreements,it would be more nicer if there disagreements would run quickly just like you said.there was a book ive read which says, even you won your argument, you lost your respect to the one you argued,and surely he will hate you for one even if he is your friend . this only one example why we need a reconciliation forum for someone to say im sorry,please add me again in your friend list.it is better to forgive and to forget and to say im sorry to reach another level.,and not being stucked.