Kh1 is forced; There is no choice. White has a vast number of choices. I would never consider a game that ends in stalemate to be “perfect.” It’s kind of not perfect.
We aren't talking aesthetics here. Tic tac toe with perfect (optimal) play is a draw no matter what the first move is. Yet by any account totally solved.
Also, a pawnlocked position is a draw, along the same lines as insufficient material, because checkmate has become impossible.
Correct. Rule 9.6
9.6 The game is drawn when a position is reached from which a checkmate cannot occur by
any possible series of legal moves. This immediately ends the game, provided that the
move producing this position was legal.
Which would then mean that in a position like this, white cannot legally play Kxa8 because the game is over. And in a rated blitz event, he could theoretically lose the game by playing Kxa8
Once the game is over that means the game is over and anything done on the board after that is irrelevant. So White would not lose by playing the irrelevant Kxa8.