Don't understand the problem with no wanting rematches. There are a million reasons why I would not want a rematch either if I win or I lose. The main one being I don't need to.
About time drains, I also don't agree with people that let run the clock once they are in a lost position. But people taking time to make a move in the opening is reasonable. If you agree to a certain time constraint it makes sense they can chose the time in good faith to think through their next move
So many no rematches. And too many people literally spending 3 to 4 mins on a opening move.
By no means am I a good player, but we are responsible for improving the chess brand. I mean just do the best moves you can then go back and analyze. I meet so many good players but good grief I dislike the 1 min left and you have no move so u just let the clock run out. C'mon ya'll it's a game.
Your contributing to chess being a sucky online choice. Look how much the site works to improve and show there is something here. So c'mon.
When I am about to quit and it takes time its just to speak with my challenger tell him its a good game and what not. And do your rematches. if your any good a loss will be compensated by later victories.
C'mon we are building towards something here.