Cheating is very rare... At one time I thought as you... Everyone cheats!.... BUT.... No I just suck! and need to work on my game. It took two high rated players being very patient with my attitude to get me to see the error in my thinking.
To think that there are cheaters around every corner will ruin the game for you. Loosing is a part of Chess... one doesn't get better without loosing and learning from your losses.
Enjoy the journey... there will be upsets and triumphs... take all of it in stride and above all Have fun...
enough minutes pass, they connect you again and one loses the game due to resentment, even winning very easily with the points but as they do not want to lose many players have learned this technique, what a coincidence that while the game is even it does not present problems but when they make a mistake or I make a good move and I weaken them in points losing one or two important pieces there it happens that I do not know how they circumvent the system and they disconnect me losing due to resentment and it is unfair and this happens a lot