I got moderated and my commented deleted because I used the word succubus. It had me irritated for quite a bit.
And I agree with what goldendog said. Just because you don't agree with policy doesn't mean you just leave...esp. if you feel the owner makes an effort to keep patrons happy and gives a lot of consideration to make the community user friendly. I've always despised people saying "if you don't like something, leave". That should be the last and least desirable of methods to deal with something. Like divorce.
Aren't I allowed without apology to complain and stick around too?
Allowed? I view it as a responsibility as an engaged member of this community and as a contribution to the health of the site. How else will chess.com get direct feedback on what is and is not working and whether and where their policies and offerings could use some touching up or improvement?