I feel bad for costelus. I think he was very emotionally invested in this site and I wish Erik had not said adios. Maybe there's more to it than this TOS thing. I don't really know.
i did all i could for costelus. i tried SOOO hard to work with him, including a personal phone call to him a few months back. but he can't stop whatever it is inside of him that makes him act the way he does. and frankly, i can't stand it anymore. if allowing him to act however he wants makes even 2 people leave the site, then we're going backwards. everyone on chess.com should be a positive influence on other people, not a negative one. and once somebody goes into "negative" mode where they are driving other people away, and can't turn it around after a few friendly and sincere messages, then what more can we do?
This is in no way an analogy to chess.com, but if one dude who believes in equality for man and woman drives away two people who believe women are inferior, then this is not a bad transaction.
i.e. there's a balance between quantity and quality.
I love order
You're wearing a hoodie AND a hat. Your statement is clearly false.