Toxic chess players, what to do?

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Butterfly_zzz

When dealing with toxic and hateful chess players, they're just sore losers. It doesn't matter if they won or lost,  it only matters that deep inside they need help. If someone you know is a toxic player or you play with a toxic player, chill, it wont hurt you.

EnCrossiantIsBrilliant

If you want, you can block chat

MaetsNori
AMagirlcom wrote:

If you want, you can block chat

I have chat and messages disabled, by default. The only thing my opponents can do to interact with me, aside from playing, is offer me a draw, request a rematch, or resign.

Save the socializing the forums here.

Butterfly_zzz
MaetsNori wrote:
AMagirlcom wrote:

If you want, you can block chat

I have chat and messages disabled, by default. The only thing my opponents can do to interact with me, aside from playing, is offer me a draw, request a rematch, or resign.

Save the socializing the forums here.

I know but man. It would be nice to say gg atleast

AndrewSmith

https://support.chess.com/en/articles/8562517-how-do-i-report-someone

MaetsNori
Butterfly_zzz wrote:

I know but man. It would be nice to say gg atleast

That used to be possible, when I was lower rated.

But at the level I play now, most of my opponents take the game quite seriously, and wins or losses become something personal. If they win, they mock and insult. If they lose, they curse and threaten.

It's not pleasant, either way - so I just have chat disabled by default.

Butterfly_zzz
MaetsNori wrote:
Butterfly_zzz wrote:

I know but man. It would be nice to say gg atleast

That used to be possible, when I was lower rated.

But at the level I play now, most of my opponents take the game quite seriously, and wins or losses become something personal. If they win, they mock and insult. If they lose, they curse and threaten.

It's not pleasant, either way - so I just have chat disabled by default.

insane

i always respond with the thumbs up emoji

DreamscapeHorizons

It's crazy but some people on here even complain about gg as if it's an insult.

Mrbonehead

Whenever you get a chat message during a game, 99/100 it will be a troll message, even when you lose. I have chat off now.

Mrbonehead
DreamscapeHorizons wrote:

It's crazy but some people on here even complain about gg as if it's an insult.

99/100 it's used to insult people.

Nancy-McDonie

Ignore them.

Butterfly_zzz

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