"I do everything I can to make my opponent's life miserable"
shockingly, that's not the right thing to do. You're taking pleasure in other people's pain and trying to seek validation for it? Just be the bigger person and end the game so everyone can go on with their lives, really strange that you even ask the question in the first place.
Has it occured to you that the person who refuses to resign might be the one trolling you, by wasting your time?
Having fun is never wasted time.