I remember a somewhat cautionary tale which, although not about how I started to play, does I think allow for an airing.
I was a brick mason for many years and worked extensively in London. When on the larger sites I would take a set and board in to work in case there was a chance of a game at break times, often there was.
I was working on what was at that time the largest site in Europe at St Mary Abbots in Kensington, it was the middle of the winter and the middle of a very hard recession in the building trade 1989-90.
I worked on that site for 18 months and towards the end, the only ones left of the building crew was me, my labourer called George Watson, (Thanks to Ayo for the correction) and the foreman. I played chess with the foreman (who wasn't very good) but could play. One game we had king and rook against king and bishop which I said was a draw with best play. George, who usually ignored the chess going on next to him glanced over and said, "I would win if I had the rook" I said something uncomplimentary about people who kibitz but don't play, Never for one minute thinking he could play chess at all. We commenced to go over the possible moves and sure enough, the bishop stops the king getting into the mating position.
I challenged George to play but he refused saying, that he had been a very strong player even being on the Scotland team for the 1953 Olympiad against Russia (this is all from memory but the gist is correct). Anyway, I eventually persuaded him to play regularly and sure enough, he beat me almost every time. He claimed to have never read a chess book but learnt to play by taking on the stronger players in his club in Edinburgh.
He lost games on time often enough (when, in his younger days he played in congresses) on a Saturday, (he went on to tell me) as he liked to bet on the horses and often used to duck out of the hall and find a betting shop, staying so long that he lost on time.
HorseGalore, why did you give up chess often?
I wonder how many chess players have episodes like that. I quit the game for many years because when I at one point joined a club I lost every game to even the weakest players. But it is really the only game I know that is intellectually challenging enough for me and so it stays interesting. Maybe there is checkers but I find that very boring.