What it's really like being a female chess player.

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I must be really bored to be reading this thread

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Stop commenting on this post, for the love of god. Or someone tell me how to stop getting these notifications lol. 

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hehehe

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TRextastic wrote:

Stop commenting on this post, for the love of god. Or someone tell me how to stop getting these notifications lol. 

 

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Martin_Stahl wrote:
TRextastic wrote:

Stop commenting on this post, for the love of god. Or someone tell me how to stop getting these notifications lol. 

 

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You are my hero. Thank you.

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Everyone will look at her and saw her if she is lucky every men will resign when they saw her as she is so sexy.....
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TRextastic wrote:
Martin_Stahl wrote:
TRextastic wrote:

Stop commenting on this post, for the love of god. Or someone tell me how to stop getting these notifications lol. 

 

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You are my hero. Thank you.

Staff shows up when you need them the most or when you don't want them there the most.

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Being, a male.. the best I can do is {partly-by-chance}, discover a topic -relevant article.  o:

https://aeon.co/essays/why-are-only-two-of-the-world-s-top-100-chess-players-women

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Stolen_Authenticity wrote:

Being, a male.. the best I can do is {partly-by-chance}, discover a topic -relevant article.  o:

https://aeon.co/essays/why-are-only-two-of-the-world-s-top-100-chess-players-women

Well, I don't know much about you just because you're a male. You could be 100+ different kinds of people for all I know. So I'll judge you less quickly than you judge yourself, and take more time to do so than you do.

The article has some good ideas, but it also uses rather biased logic at times. It seems to believe that the fact that Short has lost to Polgar discredits his statements. But chess skill doesn't even have a lot to do with the qualifications on this issue -- either people don't know that, or they forgot that because they desperately wanted to take a side right away when they heard the words "man" and "woman."

I'm probably only going to get a part of the relevant story when I'm reading an article of someone who uses this flawed and rather judgmental logic.

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Oh goodness, gracious me!  This thread returned to a discussion about the opening post. Just when I thought everyone had disasppeared up their own cloacas having critiqued to the nth degree, that art/philosophy tangent.

Leaving aside the seemingly resolved misunderstanding between tryst and Elubas... I wonder whatever became of never fear the dark  ?!

Is there any sort of ...etiquette(for want of a better word) expected when one initiates a topic/thread?  Is it really acceptable to initiate a topic such as this, and with such a strongly expressed opinion - and then decline any further input at all ?  Does  never fear the dark really have nothing further for her audience? Maybe it's simply been just a bit of wordy graffiti...

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timbeau wrote:

Is it really acceptable to initiate a topic such as this, and with such a strongly expressed opinion - and then decline any further input at all ? . . . Maybe it's simply been just a bit of wordy graffiti.

Yes, this is an extremely common MO of trolls.

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Stolen_Authenticity wrote:

Being, a male.. the best I can do is {partly-by-chance}, discover a topic -relevant article.  o:

https://aeon.co/essays/why-are-only-two-of-the-world-s-top-100-chess-players-women

Allegedly.

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Ahhh. Those poor trolls having their name appropriated like that...    

 Here was I thinking never fear the dark (which is a bloody silly name and even concept: fear, after all, is the purpose of the dark) was just being a smarty-pants...

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timbeau wrote:

Ahhh. Those poor trolls having their name appropriated like that...    

 Here was I thinking never fear the dark (which is a bloody silly name and even concept: fear, after all, is the purpose of the dark) was just being a smarty-pants...

Neverfearthedark even made a part 2 to this, and word has it that her part 3 will soon be released. Admittedly, I will very likely comment on it if it gets posted.

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Holy shit... I was joking about that, but it turns out she actually did make a part 3 Embarassed

That is pretty hilarious actually. She actually did it, wow, lol.

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sort of like one of those ...movies?

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95 pages WOw.. what did i miss?

To say the truth, with that sexy pic of her you are just asking for something more than a game of chess...

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... on second thoughts I'll leave that last one well alone.

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timbeau wrote:

Oh goodness, gracious me!  This thread returned to a discussion about the opening post. Just when I thought everyone had disasppeared up their own cloacas having critiqued to the nth degree, that art/philosophy tangent.

Leaving aside the seemingly resolved misunderstanding between tryst and Elubas... I wonder whatever became of never fear the dark  ?!

Is there any sort of ...etiquette(for want of a better word) expected when one initiates a topic/thread?  Is it really acceptable to initiate a topic such as this, and with such a strongly expressed opinion - and then decline any further input at all ?  Does  never fear the dark really have nothing further for her audience? Maybe it's simply been just a bit of wordy graffiti...

In my defense, this post has gotten hundreds of comments. I can't read them all. Sides I've written more blogs and low key responded to the general themes of comments. 

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X_PLAYER_J_X wrote:
TRextastic wrote:
Words.............A good number of men are pigs, or rude, or whiny...............Words........................

 

Have you ever stopped to wonder why a good number of men act like pigs, rude, or whiny toward you?

Perhaps the actions you are recieving from them are in response to your actions!

You have already showed how rude, whiny, and mean you can be toward the OP.

Maybe if you was a nicer person other people would be nicer toward you!

Maybe than a good number of men would act like gentlemen, nice, and kind!

My father once told me

"Son you recieve from the World what you give. If all you give is rude-ness and hatred to other people. You will recieve rude-ness and hatred from people"!

The people I know are nice.

I believe the main reason is because I am nice.

I rarely get upset and when I do people often know about it.

I don't tolerate foolish-ness.

I block people, move on, & stay happy!

An so with that in mind your below statement is incorrect:

A good number of men are pigs, or rude, or whiny, but so are women.

 



TRextastic you live in a different world than I do.

A good number of men and women I know are kind, nice, and would give you the shirts from there back in your time of need!

Trying out your new enter key, I see. But yeah I was a little rude, so what? Just because I didn't go out of my way to be pleasant or polite when I strongly disagree isn't something for you to cry over. How would you like me to state just how nonsensical I find this post? "Hi sweetie, you made so many good points but I disagree. Don't worry, I still think you're awesome and just so beautiful but maybe you should reconsider some of your comment?" That would be me being fake. And I'm not going to be fake just because people like you can't handle reality.

And the majority of men don't act like pigs, rude, or whiny toward me. I already said that the men I've encountered for the most part on here and in tournaments are incredibly nice and show respect toward me and my fellow female players. OP is the one whining and saying she's constantly bombarded with mean, rude men who harrass her. So if it's something a person brings on themsevles, like you suggest, why don't you ask her?

I have a lot of amazing men and women in my life. I don't need to act a certain way to get your approval so you'll like me.

I appreciate your frankness. You've had a difference experience than me and it's your right to share it. 

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