What tricks do you use to tell if person is good or not !?

I don't know, I don't know... if someone knows, then what? Their rating could be anything from 1000 - 3000 . Not really a good way to estimate someone's playing abilities.

🤔 well...just ask any chess player...if they have, or if they owned any chess book...authored by "Mark Dvoretsky"...and you can be assured...that their performance rating is above 2100 elo...
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That's good enough, or even if they just know Mark Dvoretsky I think it's already not a beginner strength.
Not like post #2 about Bobby Fischer - it's like everyone knows him , just like Kasparov even old lady will know them , doesn't mean they can play chess. But Mark Dvoretsky is not so official and I think only people who are in to chess will know him .
Any way good answer.
In some situations you need to know or at least ROUGHLY know, what's your opponents strength is, so besides just asking boring : what's your rating? What tricks do you use to guess their playing strength?
I usually ask : if after e4 someone response with d6 , what's that? If they can tell it's pirc defence, they might be pretty good and definitely not a novice player.