why does it seem everyone here is either using a chess engine or chess program

I dont. ( my games show it....)

And why do you think your opponents cheat? Surely these 1400 players with engine's aid are a serious matter!

Hoss, I hear ya.  If you didn't lose to programs every game, you would be most likely 2000+.

    Although it says your average opponent is 1128 ranked.  Are you positive you are playing opponents that use computer help? 

   If using a computer gets me a 1128 rating, I'm either using a 1983 Commodore 64.... or possibly I don't know how to turn the computer, itself, on.

he is just a sore looser

could be, i don`t think i have encountered anyone using an engine ever. i have played a decent number of games

1Hoss1's rating.....his Standard Live rating is reasonable as Ratings in this group are rather deflated. His Online rating is from only 3 games, which is definitely not statistically valid.

Live Chess - Blitz1201

Live Chess - Standard1428

Live Chess - Bullet923

Online Chess1152

Tactics1112

Chess Mentor1665

Here at chess.com,I occasionally get accused of cheating.In reality,my angry  opponent simply played poorly. I rarely think I have been cheated,on the few occasions where I thought my opponent was cheating,I would analyze the game on chess software,and 99% of the time it would show that I wasn't cheated,I just played poorly.

there's a cheating forum........

The final sentence of Moses last post bears repeating.

I'd say you just need to play better chess.  All you do is try and trade pieces down, regardless of what the position is.  Your games lack strategy.  When you lose, do so with some grace.  Learn from your mistakes.

OP is 4 months old.