Rofl, i feel for you mate. I've had the same sort of thing many times with poker and decided to spend less time online playing poker and more time playing chess. Now i love chess so much (just like years ago) that i don't even think of playing poker anymore.
Besides, chess is better for one in many ways. It trains the brain, it's relaxing and there's no risk of losing money :)
I took up chess because of following.
I have 10-8 in the big blind. Middle position player calls, all elese fold, I check. Flop is heads-up. 10-8-10. BINGO!!! Right? Wrong.
Turn card is Q. All the money goes in. River is Q. Opponent turns up Q-8.
Same crap time after time.
I've yet to see a player have a miracle piece fall onto the chess board to save him when he is dead to rights.