Thank you whats chessfreak have to do with this
why would someone think a girl is rare to play chess

Appreciate the point, kco. But I dunno. I really don't think panda is chessfreak. Their tone and use of words seems world's apart. But then, I'm naive in many respects to the many tactics demented people use to elevate their worth in forums these days.
Your observation was pretty close to the mark as I've seen in the forum too.

Haha. Dr & Izzie ought to get a room. It's getting primal/first grade in here. Just FB and get it over with ok? Oy vey.
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Lol. It's cool. Maybe next time.
(although my best guess would be that you're blonde, petite in stature, wearing glasses when on your laptop, has a Pomeranian named Chekhov. Writes with your right-hand but texts using your left. Watches "We bare bears" on the Cartoon Network streamed in-between games or tactics trainer, right?)
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LoL: and I'm a police dog. Woof!