If you abort games too often you'll have the option removed for a while.
I don't see the abort option, what's going on?
The abort feature is meant to be used sparingly, only in circumstances where you know you won't be able to finish the game. Players who abuse the abort feature by using it too often will have the option removed. Please follow our community guidelines and only abort games when necessary.
If you find that your ability to abort has been removed, you must simply keep playing games. Once you have played a number of games without aborting, the option will return.
Read this support article to know more~
https://support.chess.com/article/1206-what-does-it-mean-to-abort-a-game-how-do-i-do-it
I am struggling to see the abort option the moment my game starts.
Each time when a game start even if you dnt want to play there is no abort option due to which i am loosing my ratings.