I don't know how support tracks them but if you write to support@chess.com, they should tell you
Ban Appeal - Too Many Aborts

I've been banned for "too many aborts" and definitely haven't aborted any games.
Is there any way to see what game I supposedly "aborted"?
Pretty sure the actual aborts aren't tracked, just how often. I believe the also get lumped into disconnects, so if that ratio gets too high, as a ratio to completed games, then you get restricted.
If you play without disconnects or abort and get that ratio down, you'll be removed from the pool.

I can guarantee with 100% certainty that i completed every game that I have played. Not sure how it would think that I disconnected or aborted a game though.

I can guarantee with 100% certainty that i completed every game that I have played. Not sure how it would think that I disconnected or aborted a game though.
Aborts are also included in the ratio, so I'd your haven't had many/any abandonment, then you're aborting too often.
https://support.chess.com/article/627-sportsmanship-policy
So if you're getting the restrictions, your ratio is too high.

Right, I also haven't aborted any games. I literally think that this is a bug or sore loser misreporting a game as abandoned...
I have literally not disconnected, nor aborted any games in the last 6 months, 100% certain.
That's why I'm asking how to see my ratio or what games I supposedly DC'd.

Right, I also haven't aborted any games. I literally think that this is a bug or sore loser misreporting a game as abandoned...
I have literally not disconnected, nor aborted any games in the last 6 months, 100% certain.
That's why I'm asking how to see my ratio or what games I supposedly DC'd.
Being reported does not change that ratio; it's all automatic. It's not something that can be seen by anyone but staff.
If you believe it's in error, you can contact support directly about it:
https://support.chess.com/article/346-contact-us
Barely made my account, and tried to play with friends. every time I make my move I get aborted. what is going on?

Barely made my account, and tried to play with friends. every time I make my move I get aborted. what is going on?
https://support.chess.com/article/4720-online-chess-performance-optimizations
https://support.chess.com/article/213-how-do-i-fix-my-disconnect-lag-issues
I've been banned for "too many aborts" and definitely haven't aborted any games.
Is there any way to see what game I supposedly "aborted"?