Well, you recover that by playing as many games as you did abort/disconnect with your friends, but they are making a new solution to the problem for people who don't have any friends. When the new solution comes soon, the banned players will be able to play, but they can only play or resign until their abort/disconnect percentage goes below the line. The percentage is the games you aborted/disconnected over all of your games total. If you have any more questions, then please go to this forum I created and it might answer all of your questions. If it doesn't, then just post your question there and I will answer it:
http://www.chess.com/forum/view/help-support/fair-play-policynot-being-able-to-play-other-people
Please refer to the link for any questions about it, or if you want more information. The forum that I created has a Contact Help and Support link, a link to the Fair Play Policy, and a link to my blog about the Fair Play Policy.
-BlueGator456
Dear All,
My account has been restricted because it says that I violated rules and policies, however, I don't remember that I did that :S at all.
How do I recover that ???