Sorry...but I had the same experience and I rectified the proble....I DON'T PLAY LIVE CHESS ANYMORE....stick to online chess and play our time limit. Hope this solves your prob..
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thanks erik n chiefster... i am using mozilla firefox, surprisingly after that 1st game i played 8-9 more blitz games without any problem...i appreciate chiefster's advice but the thrill n enjoyment of speed chess is fascinating, somewhat addiction-type , atleast to me...it is good exciting excercise for brain n test of ur nerves...
My 1st live game of 5-min time limit vs tarheel27, i won the game in all respect; material wise n timewise but suddenly board disappeared, i found a message to reconnect by clicking 'ok', i did it n then it kept loading n giving me a message 'please wait'....loading continues infinitely... i wait ...wait n wait n eventually found that i lost that game on time .... bad taste....what to do???????????????