I doubt that this is even possible.
Where would your opponent get your IP address in order to DDOS you? Chess.com does not connect players with each other... it connects each player (separately) to the chess.com server, and just passes the result of the move to the other player.
Add me to the list....2nd time its happened...guy offers me a draw in a lost position...i decline next thing i know both sides time is blinking my internet has a DNS problem and i lost. Egypt player i think twice. Very strange and seemed some how deliberate. Next time i wont hit the decline button and just let time run maybe.