There are no such rules in the "real world", sorry for that.
Fake rated points
In chess club (real word) to get points u have to win 2 matches. It's just a gentlemen sport. about "your world" pfren, perhaps u are proud to never rematch.
That's the reason u could'n understand my request. If chess.com apply this simple rules u will know exactly your real level. Certainly u prefer keep FAKE RATED POINTS: Many people love illusions.
What kind of clubs do you attend? Do they give away rating points in French clubs? Anyhow, why do you care so much, while you state that "Rated points do not correspond to reality"? Indeed they do not, so stop caring so much. You'll eventually play anyone on this site multiple time, given enough time ;)
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In the real world,the winner gets points, only when he wins two rounds. 97% of the players I played against, refuse this rule as soon as they feel they will not have the advantage. Rated points do not correspond to reality. If you apply, finally, the rules of the real world, you could claim to be the best chess website.