speed chess and bullet games tend to bring out the worst in people.this doesn't justify trash talking to opponent of course....but even normally nice people can be tempted to do this out of frustration/heat of the moment.I too have on occassion posted some bad notes to people when I should've restrained myself (I have chat disabled on live chess to avoid trash talkers of course).
it's interesting to note that this rarely happens on CC chess.
Why do so many opponents post so many rude comments whilst playing them,is there a way to report offenders?