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Mid-KnightRider
LilyPaddling wrote:
Wrongggg!
I know him!
Who said I haven’t?!
Many people do online dating and find truest of love that way and fall into marriage.
I have every idea of he is.
Anything else

You have never seen him in person, you don't bother moving closer, and yes some marry, but what is the divorce rate?

Mid-KnightRider
1AncientConcavenator wrote:
#99 fire pfp either way

thx.

LilyPaddling
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And my parents are the ones unwilling to move. I want to move closer, I am trying to be able to start traveling at 16 next year that way I can be closer
LilyPaddling
The divorce rate is the same as when u meet in person as of u met online
Mid-KnightRider
LilyPaddling wrote:
The divorce rate is the same as when u meet in person as of u met online

and its pretty high eother way.

LilyPaddling
yah so? it’s life and people just fall out of marriage and love, like my parents, who was married for like 15 years
LilyPaddling
they started dating a few months after they met married a year after starting dating divorced 15 years later
Mid-KnightRider
LilyPaddling wrote:
yah so? it’s life and people just fall out of marriage and love, like my parents, who was married for like 15 years

You see that divorce is an issue right?

LilyPaddling
I’m not scared to take risks, and I’ve had relationships fall apart irl, I gave up on trusting those ppl when they did what they did. And I have hard time trusting , but im not afraid to risk a heartbreak, the experience and feelings are what counts
LilyPaddling
yas but it doesn’t mean to not try. not everyone gets divorced. Some of the best couples met online and stay forever
Mid-KnightRider

can you tell me 10 things you guys agree on?

LilyPaddling
That we want to never break up

We’ll always try to be available for each other as much as possible


We’ll stand up for each other


We want to meet irl



We both love pizza


And movies


We both love kittens



We will chat everyday



That hugs from me are the bestest




And dm is better cuz ppl can be pretty annoying on otf like baby




Mid-KnightRider

fair enough, do you agree on who does what work around the house, relioion, politics, how many kids you are gonna have how much you guys can spend at grocery stores, and so on?

1AncientConcavenator
#133 they’re a week in bro. Don’t push the relationship ending questions now
1AncientConcavenator
They are doing the right thing right now I think communicating and getting comfortable with each other
Mid-KnightRider

fair enough, but if she is this convinced that some dude she has dated for a week and never seen will never break up with her, maybe she needs a sense of reality.

kadinisatryhard

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CarTheSlay

I think Mid's main point is just to be careful. There have been people on here who seemed perfectly normal at first, started "dating", and then started sending people stuff in DMs that I cannot describe.

Take this not as judgment, but rather something to think about.

LilyPaddling
#113 first week bro.



and IF we have kids two max
Mid-KnightRider

People online can pretend to be anyone and actually be anyone else, to say that some guy online is certainly awesome is naive, but the hard way has a lot of traffic these days. I only learned that a guy named Mickey was a troll after being buddies for a month, just ask Basix, I was also "He would never"