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Dec 31, 2016
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#661
I guess I just felt for Carolina more than anything.
Dec 31, 2016
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#663
I prefer having a conversation. With people that are brave enough to show who they are.
Tom it's like this:
You are publicly airing private thoughts. Like walking down Clacton pier stark naked expecting others to either do the same (because it's sooo natural) or to respect your choice. Surely no surprises then when the (envious) onlookers make derogatory comments about your genitals?
My advice would be to put your best suit back on and wear it with pride. You sound like a great guy to me. Leave the inner thoughts to your nearest and dearest. Hug a real person and tell them you love them. Plan a romantic surprise rather than spending precious moments on a crappy web site full of nutters.
You are publicly airing private thoughts. Like walking down Clacton pier stark naked expecting others to either do the same (because it's sooo natural) or to respect your choice. Surely no surprises then when the (envious) onlookers make derogatory comments about your genitals?
My advice would be to put your best suit back on and wear it with pride. You sound like a great guy to me. Leave the inner thoughts to your nearest and dearest. Hug a real person and tell them you love them. Plan a romantic surprise rather than spending precious moments on a crappy web site full of nutters.
Dec 31, 2016
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#665
If I'm honest I would prefer you didn't come back. I think you distract people from sharing and enjoying each other.
I would prefer you stayed and opened up and allowed people to open themselves up but you're clearly too much of a coward for that to happen.
I would prefer you stayed and opened up and allowed people to open themselves up but you're clearly too much of a coward for that to happen.
Dec 31, 2016
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#668
What bothers me is that people like Carolina won't be able to open up because of cowardly attacks because of the likes of Kay.
Can't we just hang out here? I guess not.
Can't we just hang out here? I guess not.
Dec 31, 2016
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#669
But then Carolina can talk on tree's thread. I suppose I can't have it both ways. I block or I accept that there will be the cowards that attack.
morning Tom ...I m busy with a new music thread for Carolina
yes I will block him but i can only do that when he posts something i think...I m not good with computers
Dec 31, 2016
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#673
I suppose I'll address Kay as long as long as I want to.
Bobby I think I want to see for a year what an open thread looks like with me just being me.
I might have a year later with a thread that's me being me but with blocks on anyone that's not willing to contribute only attack.
Bobby I think I want to see for a year what an open thread looks like with me just being me.
I might have a year later with a thread that's me being me but with blocks on anyone that's not willing to contribute only attack.
Dec 31, 2016
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#674
No you can block anyone you like I think. At any time.
Either way I'm pleased Carolina will be safe. She's a sweet girl.
Either way I'm pleased Carolina will be safe. She's a sweet girl.
Dec 31, 2016
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#675
I want to talk about other things than Kay. I'm just struggling with someone bullying on my thread. It's upsetting to me.
Usually it's towards me and I take it on the chin but it disgusts me that it's to someone here that has done absolutely nothing wrong.
Just joined in a conversation. I've never seen that before.
Usually it's towards me and I take it on the chin but it disgusts me that it's to someone here that has done absolutely nothing wrong.
Just joined in a conversation. I've never seen that before.
Dec 31, 2016
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#676
But I accept it. This is an open thread or it's not and everyone that's here understands that.
But I think Bobby is right,Tom. Those thoughts and worries you have about your fellow site users are pointless.
Dec 31, 2016
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#678
I don't accept though that there isn't worthwhile conversations or encounters to be had here. I've had both.
Some people are brave enough to show who they are.
And another thing. Kay's behaviour is Kay.
It tries to disassociate itself from its behaviour by describing itself in the third person.
But what we write here is us. Just like talking offline.
Some people are brave enough to show who they are.
And another thing. Kay's behaviour is Kay.
It tries to disassociate itself from its behaviour by describing itself in the third person.
But what we write here is us. Just like talking offline.
Dec 31, 2016
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#679
I agree pulp! You're right. And yet I have moments of beauty and friendship here and if annoys me someone is threatening that.
Also offline online bullying is bullying and people get upset. It's not right
Also offline online bullying is bullying and people get upset. It's not right