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A best friend you've found during your search this week?

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It's not like there aren't people here I love. I love both men and women on this site to varying degrees.

I have a few off the thread I love and a few on the thread I love and also some I love both on and off the thread!
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Well I've found someone I trust that I can't open my heart to LJ. I can't talk about the people I talk to individually. No one would open their heart to me if I didn't offer them privacy.
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That I can open my heart to!
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It's important to me to have someone here I can trust. Someone I love as a friend. Someone I want to share my life with. I've found that.
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Oh I wasn't asking for a name, obviously. Just thought it sounded very quick to find a bf already. Lol.

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It's lovely too that I am talking to a mixture of beautiful people men and women.

I have to admit that I always wanted to know a female friend here. Just hoped to have that experience. Well I do and I just love it. Beautiful
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Sure Jane. I just wouldn't say anything that could make anyone that trusts me uncomfortable.
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Naturally I'm conscious of my need to be loyal.
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I'm glad you've found whom you were looking for and found that person quickly. I'm sure you'll be a lot happier now and recover quickly from the loss you talked about this week.

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That's one of the technicalities here. When you talk to people here they imagine they are talking only to you and they expect you to entirely respect their privacy.
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Well I need such a person I would say LJ. A friend I can trust and share my life with. It's lovely to have that here and I'm glad you have people dear to you too.
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I'm very fortunate in having a friend on here I love and trust and can share my life with too. We've been friends for a long time. Love him.
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I do have more than one person I love and trust here.

It's hard to explain. I'm talking about having someone that's happy for you to write them and for you to tell them how you are feeling. That is an opportunity for you to express yourself privately to when you'd like to. A bond.

I can't think of a better term than a best friend. I could say obsession maybe. I sometimes see a glimpse of beauty from someone and seeing that I want to see the whole thing.
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That's beautiful Jane. I'm so glad.
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On this site when a man and lady talk there can be issues of falling in love. Seeing the soul of someone as you can when a person feels relaxed because of anonymity it's inevitable people fall here and they do.
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I can't be that way. I can't love someone as I love my wife.

I'm hopeful that with my photo here I'll always see the ladies here like I do the ladies offline and never fall in love.

Yes deeply love. Even perhaps talk of love. But with the knowledge that how I feel is the deep and beautiful love of one friend to another.
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It's such a confidence boost when a person here is willing to talk to you. Especially when they strike you as beautiful.
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I know what you mean. I'm so lucky to have him, we've got on so wonderfully well on here.Very rewarding friendship.

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I talked to a lady yesterday and she wrote me with such elegance and integrity that I felt like I was watching a peacock unfurling it's wings.

I felt embarrassed I couldn't offer anything as beautiful in return and thrilled to have been fortunate enough to see her.