How can I seem nonchalant
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Oct 22, 2025
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#3
No I'm not talking slang just cool, and don't give a care in the world
Oct 22, 2025
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#6
Give me an example of your experience
Like messing up a conversation, something real tho
Like messing up a conversation, something real tho
Oct 22, 2025
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#8
Like cracking jokes but nobody listens, then someone cracks the exact same joke and ppl listen
Also like not being able to make friends bc if I'm introverted ppl call me "emo" and if I'm extroverted like ppl want, ppl call me annoying
Oct 22, 2025
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#9
#8 don’t try to be the funny one, there will be people who find you funny but most I’ve seen just scream internally to avoid social interaction, try to look confident all the time even if you aren’t, just raise your head, walk normally, copying others is good aswell
Oct 22, 2025
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#11
Introverted and extroverted isn't something you can turn on and off with a switch. As for awkward jokes, read the room. You're probably bad at that, so practice. Spend some time listening instead of woring what you're gonna say next. You can learn a lot about people just by observing them. Also people love to talk about themselves so then they like you and you learn what they find funny and what they like.
Oct 22, 2025
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#12
Try not to talk about yourself all time tho, 1, because people might not care, let them talk about themselves, and 2, since you said everything about yourself, they prob won’t want to talk to you, try to minimize talking about yourself, you can, but don’t just talk about it all the time
Oct 22, 2025
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#13
12 I think finding things you have in common is valuable and then you can share things about yourself as long as it's relevant and you're also actively listening to what the other person has to say
Oct 22, 2025
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#14
#13 yeah, I think my example was a little less focused on making friends or talking to them, I think
Oct 22, 2025
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#15
Eh small talk will probably always be torturous and that's it. It might top out at mildly pleasant if you've had the luck to find someone decent to talk to
Oct 22, 2025
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#16
Idk why, but I got used to laughing at things that weren’t really that funny, sometimes do it without even wanting
Oct 22, 2025
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#17
Some of the people you do that to probably know you're faking it. How does that make you feel
Oct 22, 2025
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#18
Somehow people don’t know I’m “faking” it
But if they do, I’d prob feel like a donkey
But if they do, I’d prob feel like a donkey
Oct 22, 2025
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#19
Wellll how do you know that they don't know? Maybe they know that you don't know that they know.
I NEED THIS
I am so socially awkward and stupid
Plz tell me