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so recently I've been having issues mentally and i've lost all my friends bc they where "concerned" so they told the principle and i had to spend a whole day with the councilors and now my "friends" including what i thought was my girlfriend don't even talk to me . what should I do? can someone please talk to me?

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Do what you like to do and what makes you feel joy

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Focus more on the good parts of your day and less on the bad parts

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I'll talk do u what do u want to talk abt

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#3 that isn’t how it works but it’s a start.
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#5 it helps tho

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#1 I’ll dm and let’s try to work this out 👍
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:0 lyand actually helping someone with there depression
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lyand2025 wrote:

Do what you like to do and what makes you feel joy

play games, disassociate its really unhealthy though that's why I'm trying to be more social

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#8 *their

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#10 dimit
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#8 I'm a nice guy

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#1 if you want to talk about it I’m available rn and I could definitely help even if it’s just socialization you want.
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It's normal to have UPs and DOWNs throughout our lives, you did nothing wrong. 
and the issues you're going through revealed the true colors of people around you, so that's a win rather than a lose.
Make sure to get the help you need. Wish everything goes well for you : )

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If you’re having issues mentally, then your friends are perfectly in the right for letting someone know, especially if you refused to talk to someone yourself to get things sorted out.

What should you do? Talk to a counselor, and do things that you enjoy.

What’s got you in such a bad state of mind, anyway?
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BasixWhiteBoy wrote:
If you’re having issues mentally, then your friends are perfectly in the right for letting someone know, especially if you refused to talk to someone yourself to get things sorted out.
What should you do? Talk to a counselor, and do things that you enjoy.
What’s got you in such a bad state of mind, anyway?

its not the fact they told someone. its the fact they didn't ask me what's wrong and then afterwards what feels like abandon me

and what got me in a bad state before was feeling alone all the time and having constant headaches then the fact these friends felt fake

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Why did they talk to the principle?
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justmelion wrote:
BasixWhiteBoy wrote:
If you’re having issues mentally, then your friends are perfectly in the right for letting someone know, especially if you refused to talk to someone yourself to get things sorted out.
What should you do? Talk to a counselor, and do things that you enjoy.
What’s got you in such a bad state of mind, anyway?

its not the fact they told someone. its the fact they didn't ask me what's wrong and then afterwards what feels like abandon me

and what got me in a bad state before was feeling alone all the time and having constant headaches then the fact these friends felt fake

Maybe they felt that a professional in mental health would be better suited to help you out. I wouldn’t be so hard on your friends for trying to help.

Anyway, what you should do is just cut off all of your friends if they’re fake, focus on yourself, and try and make better friends.