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breezehappysquirrel
Feb 25, 2024
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#1
Feb 25, 2024
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#2
“I could not tell you if I loved you the first moment I saw you, or if it was the second or third or fourth. But I remember the first moment I looked at you walking toward me and realized that somehow the rest of the world seemed to vanish when I was with you.” - anonymous
Feb 25, 2024
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Absolutely! (That's a can of Bustelo Coffee)
Seriously though, I do believe in love at first sight. I've witnessed it, so I know it is real. The problem becomes how many misunderstand love. If someone "loves" someone as soon as they see them, this isn't a deep love; it is "infatuation." Infatuation can transition into that deeper love (usually takes about 6 months, or more to happen). Some people may then argue that "love at first sight" doesn't exist then, because Infatuation can turn into love (also might not), but I prefer to be on the optimistic side of things and claim that deep "love at first sight" can still be felt buried under the infatuation of meeting.
Another way of saying this is that I believe "love at first sight" does exist, but it will take at least 6 months to know if it was really "love" or if it was just "infatuation."
Feb 25, 2024
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#4
ZachGod07 wrote:
You write so much 🤣😅
You haven't read my posts. I regularly write WAY more lol
Feb 25, 2024
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#5
#3 lol Zach; if I don’t, How will people remember me when I’m gone? Tell me Zach, tell me!
Feb 25, 2024
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#4 and KeSetoKaiba, I want to know - when you say “I've witnessed it, so I know it is real” were you just a witness or, part of the process?
Feb 25, 2024
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#10
When I was at school, when I saw the deep eyes and lovely curls and sweet smile of at least three boys, (at different point of time) I thought I’m going to spend the rest of my life with them.
Feb 25, 2024
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#11
But you know what, at that time, no body thought of anything permanent. The concept didn’t even exist in our minds
Feb 25, 2024
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breezehappysquirrel wrote:
#4 and KeSetoKaiba, I want to know - when you say “I've witnessed it, so I know it is real” were you just a witness or, part of the process?
I noticed the ambiguity after I had posted this lol
I meant witnessing and not part of the process. I've seen true love happen many times and I'm so happy for those people 
I haven't really been looking for a relationship...really ever. I'm receptive to this happening one day, but I guess I haven't really met someone I feel that deep love with (never really infatuation either). I've just been busy with my own life (mostly school or interests like golf or chess), so I never really placed a high priority towards finding that special someone.
The other part of it is that some people like to mingle and date around and see who they like. I don't want to waste my time playing games with people I don't see myself possibly having a relationship with. I don't want to compromise on my standards even if it means I don't meet someone as early in life as other people do.
breezehappysquirrel wrote:
Do you believe in love at first sight
Normally it's gone at second sight or after time.
Then there's distance. Good from far, far from good.
Ultimately it's spacetime.
breezehappysquirrel wrote:
“I could not tell you if I loved you the first moment I saw you, or if it was the second or third or fourth. But I remember the first moment I looked at you walking toward me and realized that somehow the rest of the world seemed to vanish when I was with you.” - anonymous
That's CERTAINLY what two becoming one defines.. ✨️
Feb 25, 2024
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breez stop beating around the bush ! …….you know you love me , so for gawd sake just tell me ! 🤷♂️
roflmao 🤣