IM NOW BI AND GENDER FLUID 🙃

I am a catboy or an axolotl boy

Look, I’m just gonna say it—these days it feels like every other teenager is announcing they’re bi, nonbinary, pansexual, or something new I’ve never even heard of, and honestly, it’s hard not to be skeptical. Like, when did it become uncool to just be a regular dude or girl? It’s like there's this weird pressure now to have some kind of “unique” label or identity, and if you don’t, you’re seen as basic or closed-minded. I swear, half of this stuff feels like it’s less about self-discovery and more about trying to stand out or fit in with whatever the internet's obsessed with this week. And yeah, I get it—times have changed, people feel safer being open, that’s great. But not everything needs a flag, a hashtag, or a full-blown personality overhaul. Some of it just feels performative as hell. Like people are treating gender and sexuality like accessories—just another way to get attention or signal how “progressive” they are. I’m not saying no one’s being genuine, but let’s not pretend all of it is. Sometimes it just looks like identity theater, and honestly, it’s exhausting to watch.