Omg will Irish be offended if we say their accent is difficult to understand

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I told a friend that during client’s meet we panic if we  have calls with Irish clients because their accent is so different. And he stopped talking to me. Forever. 

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He’s Irish

All I asked was “is your English same as the one spoken in The UK”

And he was so offended. What to do now

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That makes me sad 😔

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breezehappysquirrel wrote:

He’s Irish

All I asked was “is your English same as the one spoken in The UK”

And he was so offended. What to do now

LMAO breeze Irish really don't like being compared to the UK

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It sounds like there was a misunderstanding that led to your friend feeling hurt. It’s possible that your comment, even if unintentional, came across as insensitive or ignorant to your friend. Here’s what you can do:

  1. Reach Out with an Apology: Send a heartfelt message acknowledging the mistake. Express that you didn’t mean to offend and that you value the friendship.

  2. Clarify Your Intentions: Explain that your question came from a place of curiosity and not judgment. Let them know you’re genuinely interested in understanding different accents and cultures.

  3. Respect Their Space: If your friend needs time, respect that. They might need some space to process their feelings.

  4. Learn and Grow: Use this as an opportunity to educate yourself on cultural sensitivity and how to communicate more thoughtfully in the future.

It might not immediately fix things, but showing genuine remorse and a willingness to understand can help mend the relationship.

 
 
 
 
 
 
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Chatgpt...

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LoL

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I apologised. May be I should send a handwritten note or something. It works most of the time. 🤓

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Bruh
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They’re just annoyed that you compared them to the British
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Chesssblackbelt what are the phrases that I should use that will move an Irish’s heart

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Could it be? Omg

he’s such a nice person I don’t want to lose him for something like this. 🙇‍♀️

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Maybe I will talk to him after a week

he would have forgiven me by then

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But I said so many nice things about Irish!! 
why can’t they see that. Omg

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This happened yesterday

For a sec I thought he reported me when I got this….

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lol
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Lol that’s one place I don’t want to see my name 😆

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Everyone in the UK thinks he/she is:
•English
• Scotish
• Irish
• Welsh
• North-Irish

And if you say for a Irish that he is Scotish, he can end your relationship!
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Or english