pls define love to me

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You’re asking all the right questions.

this is one of the things that you know mentally what it is, but you can’t really explain it…

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DumDolphin09 wrote:

You’re asking all the right questions.

this is one of the things that you know mentally what it is, but you can’t really explain it…

Actually no, I don’t know mentally what it is either

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Ok, I should give a real response to this.

But before I do, what kind of love are you talking about?
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#29 ahh a common misconception that if a feeling can be felt with anyone it isn’t special.
But please think of it this way. What is the difference between getting a kiss on the cheek from your mother compared to an individual you are interest in.
The difference between love with a significant other and just someone you may love is the feelings you obtain from the same action.
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1AncientConcavenator wrote:
But please think of it this way. What is the difference between getting a kiss on the cheek from your mother compared to an individual you are interest in.

But that’s the thing, I don’t know. Idk what romantic interest is like, genuinely, so I don’t know how to answer that question.

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BasixWhiteBoy wrote:
Ok, I should give a real response to this.
But before I do, what kind of love are you talking about?

I mean romantic attraction, like the kind that is felt by

  • you and Ari frfrfrfr
  • a married couple
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Love: when u feel something tugging ur heart liek pulling U to them or smth and ur face feels warm and u feel happy and sometimes giggly and u get excited around that person a lot .
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LilyPaddly wrote:
Love: when u feel something tugging ur heart liek pulling U to them or smth and ur face feels warm and u feel happy and sometimes giggly and u get excited around that person a lot .

…Never felt that, sry

Maybe it’s just a matter of time ig

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Thank you all for the replies btw, I really appreciate your help, genuinely

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U will feel it when ever u feel it.

it’ll feel liek time stopped and it’s definitely different for everyone but it should be the most wonderful feeling
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Now I’ve described love in a dreamy way and really what you do Once your in love. But the truth is your love for someone is entirely unique to the connection you and the other person have.
I see you’ve mentioned that you only feel a pull towards your friends. And as funny as it sounds it may be because you actually love them. Of course it may not be as intense as if you had those feelings towards your significant other but it’s the same concept. You share a mutual interest with your friends you’ve been there for each other. You’ve had laughs together maybe you’ve cried together. And in that you start to love your friends. Not in an intimate way but in a platonic way.
The best case scenario for you finding love if for your relationship to follow the same pattern as the one you have with your friends. The only difference being some special thing only that one person can give you in life. Unfortunately I cannot help you find that special thing. But if you are truly ment to be for each other you shouldn’t need my help
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Hope this helps. I’m on app too. My fingers are so sore lol 🤣
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#42 🥹 Beautiful words.
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Thank you for your help :]

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BasixWhiteBoy wrote:
SheepAndCircuses wrote:
BasixWhiteBoy wrote:

love

1: to hold dear: cherish

isn’t that also applicable to close friendships?

2a: to feel a lover's passion, devotion, or tenderness for

the first two are just alternative terms that i also don’t understand. the last one doesn’t apply to just romantic relationships

i’m sorry, i still don’t get it

That's Merriam Webster's definition.

Nobody can define it any better.

Oxford?

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I don’t think define likes you back
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An intense feeling of deep affection.

Off the top of my head, that’s it.

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SpamtonNeoOfficial wrote:
What is love?
Baby don’t hurt me.

DON’T HURT ME NO MORE ✨✨🗣️🗣️🔥🔥

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Abtectous wrote:
I don’t think define likes you back

💀

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AG120502 wrote:

An intense feeling of deep affection.

Off the top of my head, that’s it.

That’s very broad, though. It could be applied to things like close friendships or emotional attachment to an object

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