PSA: Do not date anyone you only know on chess.com

Sort:
sicilianswiftie

This is important news that I never thought I would have to give. Unironically trying to date random users who you only know on chess.com is only asking for trouble. There was a user recently banned for catfishing and asking for pictures from other users. You have no idea who is on the other side of the screen. In fact, you have no idea who I am (and I want to keep it that way).
.
It's very weird when you try to non-jokingly create romantic relationships with random users as teens or in some cases even preteens.
.
A major club on chess.com I know broke up this way, two totally random teenagers on chess.com began dating, broke up (who would have thought?) and the drama tore up a discord server and still goes on months later (part of why I mostly left).
.
As my friend @FreeFriendlyDove said, "Heh, me: the chill girl who DOESNT even want a partner." (source)
.
but if you do, please seek someone irl in your school/area close to your age (i'm not here to debate specific age gaps, that's not the point of this post), and not a total stranger who is just a pfp and a few text posts.

BasixWhiteBoy

Hey @sicilianswiftie, would you like to date?

I don’t usually date Swifties, but you seem like an exception.

TheGalaxyGirl253

basix, lmao.

ToastBread_2
Dm me the link of the club I would like to check it out
BasixWhiteBoy
sicilianswiftie wrote:
BasixWhiteBoy wrote:

Hey @sicilianswiftie, would you like to date?

I don’t usually date Swifties, but you seem like an exception.

no i made this is because i actually saw this unironically happen elsewhere, and it ended so badly that i feel compelled to make this post.
like a whole club was ripped apart because one of the members was server owner

SK?

ToastBread_2
Heh
ImOnThatColumbianProduce
For the past month I’ve had my pfp a girl
sicilianswiftie
BasixWhiteBoy wrote:
sicilianswiftie wrote:
BasixWhiteBoy wrote:

Hey @sicilianswiftie, would you like to date?

I don’t usually date Swifties, but you seem like an exception.

no i made this is because i actually saw this unironically happen elsewhere, and it ended so badly that i feel compelled to make this post.
like a whole club was ripped apart because one of the members was server owner

SK?

iykyk, you won't know

ImOnThatColumbianProduce
A lot of ppl on this app are down bad
RealTactics960
Hm…
On the one hand, what you say is logical
On the other hand, Espio
TheEvanMack

Too late. I'm already married.

ToastBread_2
Oh yea I saw sk in a club
ToastBread_2
@sk-exploded
the_free_rating_guy
Damn I’m still single
sicilianswiftie
ToastBread_2 wrote:
Oh yea I saw sk in a club

You could be further from the truth, but it is very hard. The members in question are not OTFers.

BasixWhiteBoy

Bottom line: Don’t be an idiot and date people on the internet as a teenager. Just be friends with one another.

sicilianswiftie
BasixWhiteBoy wrote:

Bottom line: Don’t be an idiot and date people on the internet as a teenager. Just be friends with one another.

^^^^^

hashbrowninator
sicilianswiftie wrote:

PSA: Do not date anyone you only know on chess.com

and next thing you'll say is i should wear sunscreen when i go outside.

obvious government propaganda, everyone.

sicilianswiftie
hashbrowninator wrote:
sicilianswiftie wrote:

PSA: Do not date anyone you only know on chess.com

and next thing you'll say is i should wear sunscreen when i go outside.

obvious government propaganda, everyone.

and next then, they will ask drivers to wear seat belts!!!! this is outrageous! 1984!

Lelouch_Vi_Briittaniaa

Right, I don't even get how they start doing dating someone without even knowing the other person, they could be dating same gender person with 30 year age difference lol. And what's even the point, you guys won't be meeting ever in life if you're countries apart