relax and be yourself
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tomtrytostay
Jun 16, 2016
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#1
Hi. In this forum I'm going to be relaxing and being myself and I invite you to do the same . Thank you .
Does this mean I don't need to wear pants?
Jun 16, 2016
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#4
I like the idea of relaxing and being myself . I used to work so hard at relating, so much so that I actually began to resent people. Not anymore . Now I don't worry and just be me . All and everyone is welcome to join me here and do the same .
Jun 16, 2016
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#6
There are real advantages to just being you . I'll bullet point them.
1 . You can concentrate on the other person and what they are saying to you .
2. You can be physically relaxed because you are living in the moment and just being aware of what's happening.
3. The other person sees a you that's likely to last so they can see if you are their cup of tea .
4. If you are loved then you know you are loved for who you are rather than an image you've presented.
5. It effortless. It's actually beautiful to just relax and let it all hang out and just say what you are comfortable to say.
6. It's being genuine. The real you . People can come to appreciate that and show you the real them . They can't know you if you hide yourself.
7. It's sustainable. If you do pretend to be someone, sooner or later the real you will show through.
8. It's comforting . You'll know that if someone didn't want you then that's just the way it is . It's not like you used an approach they didn't like . You showed them who you are and you weren't for them.
9. It's kind . If you relax then those around you can pick up on that and relax with you too.
1 . You can concentrate on the other person and what they are saying to you .
2. You can be physically relaxed because you are living in the moment and just being aware of what's happening.
3. The other person sees a you that's likely to last so they can see if you are their cup of tea .
4. If you are loved then you know you are loved for who you are rather than an image you've presented.
5. It effortless. It's actually beautiful to just relax and let it all hang out and just say what you are comfortable to say.
6. It's being genuine. The real you . People can come to appreciate that and show you the real them . They can't know you if you hide yourself.
7. It's sustainable. If you do pretend to be someone, sooner or later the real you will show through.
8. It's comforting . You'll know that if someone didn't want you then that's just the way it is . It's not like you used an approach they didn't like . You showed them who you are and you weren't for them.
9. It's kind . If you relax then those around you can pick up on that and relax with you too.
Jun 16, 2016
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#7
I guess the self help books don't promote just be you . Would be rather a short book
Jun 16, 2016
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#8
I used to worry , I went so crazy. Paranoid . People think paranoid is about solely a malicious detractor it's not , it's also about a benevolent benefactor .
When I was paranoid I felt there were attempts to help me and hurt me that weren't there at all .
When I was paranoid I felt there were attempts to help me and hurt me that weren't there at all .
well so so Tom but she wasn t a bad girl...it was ok I guess
I like your 9 points Tom...the 9 commandments by Tom
Jun 16, 2016
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#13
Ah. That's nice my friend . Love is beautiful of course . Sex pretty good too !
Jun 16, 2016
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#14
Thank you . Just relax and be yourself . It wouldn't sell many books though
Jun 16, 2016
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#15
It's what the people that love us say though right? They say just be yourself . You are enough .
I m gonna watch football tonight Germany vs Poland that could be nice...maybe Poland wins that would be great of course..
Sure I always have guinness that is the best with football
