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gotta go now Tom ..Take care and try to be happy 

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I've reached the end of my search here on chess.com.

I've come to the conclusion that all that truly exists is nature . We are just life naturally evolving . The best that we can do is just relax and be ourselves . Life has no true meaning . Row row row your boat .

I'm a physicalist, a materialist.
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Bye Gerbeck. You are a sweet man
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Anyway now that my what is it phase is over I'm not sure that I'll post here . I'd like to see.
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tomtrytostay wrote:
Hi. In this forum I'm going to be relaxing and being myself and I invite you to do the same . Thank you .

  Relaxation is one thing and attention quite another.

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tomtrytostay wrote:
I've reached the end of my search here on chess.com.

I've come to the conclusion that all that truly exists is nature . We are just life naturally evolving . The best that we can do is just relax and be ourselves . Life has no true meaning . Row row row your boat .

I'm a physicalist, a materialist.

It took the chess.com forums for you to come up with this?

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tomtrytostay wrote:                                                                

relax and be yourself                        13 hours ago 

Hi. In this forum I'm going to be relaxing and being myself and I invite you to do the same . Thank you .

  I can almost set my watch to the time you start this recording of your pitiful whining and moping everyday.


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Wow three posts. Exciting .
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Good morning guys. Good morning world!
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Hey Troy welcome. Welcome to everyone.
Md if you are reading you're welcome too.

Sexuality doesn't matter. I can enjoy a lady though she enjoys men so why not a man that enjoys men.

What matters is you care.
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No actually the only thing you do need is an employment record book so that they can't shut you out, without you knowing anything about it. Am I right Tom?

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Hmm Troy at 25. I'm glad that you too are relaxing. That's something I admire about you. You have a self assuredness about you .

You just keep doing your thing no matter what anyone says.

I guess I'm like that too.
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Hm peste. I'm not sure what that means. Welcome though. Relax and be yourself . Welcome and relax. Kick your shoes off.
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I don't know what that means still really! Anyway. Welcome buddy!
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Troy I think when you relax you naturally pay attention. Not so buddy?
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PHudson yes!

I'm not sure exactly how things changed. I suppose chess.com has been my therapist. It's given me a chance to think about the world and what I am and I've gradually came to terms with my existence here . I mean being alive not being on the site!
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Where? I'm not working Tom, and my chances of getting a job are very slim right now. I'm not an optimist by nature, nonetheless once a month it's not such a problem. Right? Unless...

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Okay Joseph.

That's interesting. I do hear people say that I moan. You aren't the only one to say that about me.

I think often I'm actually expressing my confusion.
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We are kind of angry Tom, right now, for obvious reasons. I guess I should have taken into consideration this turn of events. Right? Well I can't do all by myself. Cut the crap.

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Ah I see what you mean. That whole thing is interesting. Freud said that the two main pillars of life are work and love. Of course I've misquoted, I always do.

I have a couple of things to say.

Firstly your worth is not defined by your employment status, what matters is you care.

Secondly I'm currently employed but I'm extremely nervous about that continuing. I'm slow. I'm error prone. I'm dim. I'm have behavioural problems. I'm a little crazy .

I think that the current way society is set up encourages anxiety. Everyone is having to achieve deadlines and it's becoming harder and harder.

Buddy I'm sorry things are tough for you. I hope you have the beauty in your life that makes your life worthwhile.

I guess a walk in a beautiful park is free.