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Ha ha
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Stolen first of all thank you for giving me your own words .
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I'd be grateful if all of us stick to just expressing ourselves here please
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I guess your post suggests that why I post here is because I want to convince others to accept my opinion as fact
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I'm not sure that's true . I could be copy and pasting articles about nature and determinism but I'm not going to
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I'd certainly say that my threads were a journey of self discovery . I feel though I've found an idea that I'm comfortable to accept as reality .
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I'm not sure what I'll talk about in this thread if anything at all . I know some find me wearing so perhaps I'm better to confine myself to here
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I'm interested to see if I continue to obsess about the nature of reality or talk about something else or not talk at all
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One thing I know is I'll be relaxing and being myself . I humbly invite you to do the same .
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So I guess my search is over . And you know I'm feeling pretty good
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I certainly think my I am nature position is better than my I am love position!

At least hawking and Einstein approve of me new position . I believe that Buddhism talks of there being no self and everything being interconnected.
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I want to talk about silence . Do you guys ever find that someone is aggressive with you then you stop talking to that person? It's not a conscious decision you know it just happens . That happens with me sometimes
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Once I'm in that position I think oh I'm stuck . It just seems that I'm stuck . That I can't get out . Eventually things return to normal but man it can take years
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I used to think people stopped talking to me deliberately and perhaps some do. But I've found I stop speaking to people without meaning to and perhaps some of those do too .
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Is it normal to find yourself not speaking to someone or am I alone in this?
Stolen_Authenticity

I believe, that being overly analytical in one's own conciousness, in general - Or even some specific aspect, of their OWN, {my emphasis}, Life.. Can be detrimental.. {esp. if done in a negative context}.. In Not 'seeing' the 'Big Picture'!  -- Eg.- Rest assured, Everyone, is thinking 1st-and-foremost, of themselves!!

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Yeah me too . We ought to relax and let go
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Oh I see what you mean . You are saying I shouldn't wonder about not talking to people maybe .

But I asked my wife and my daughter and they say no we never find ourselves not talking to someone.

So I'm alone in this then?
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I'm not worrying . Just expressing myself
Stolen_Authenticity

Ultimately, Do what your 'gut' tells you to do - So long as you satisfied yourself, that it's Not because you're 'holding' a Grudge!

'JC' is quoted, as once having answered.. re. 'How often should we forgive another person"?.. '7 times'? ..His, answer.. condensed.. 'No, '70 times 7' times, you should forgive' {the offender}.. Anotherwords.. As often, as required! - Which, incidentally.. has No relation to Not engaging them in 'chat'.. Or even necessarily, responding to them. - Ie. Once again.. Follow your 'gut' in these matters.. Which, in Christian 'believer' speak - Is referred to, as 'following the lead/ guidance, of the 'Holy Spirit' In you! .. Which, I assume you Don't have, as of yet.. Not that, 'He' doesn't necessarily, freely-share, that 'leading'-guidance.. With most All, concerned!