Tha's the point: there is no way to avoid it. You agreed with my bus example, but you still hope for a way to avoid it...Contradiction.
That girl is all of us. We are all hiding behind our fortresses. But who is behind the walls? What is it that is being hurt? But we needn't be as superficial as that girl and hide, too.
The way of ecchi is the path to the dark side.
Altang will tell you.
I'm not really sure. The name keeps appearing to me in visions and I don't know what it means.
According to Tobin's "Spirit Guide," Altang was the minion of Nu Kwa and Fu Hsi. Altang is a lesser diety and is considered to be a fish god.
You should avoid seafood restaurants at all costs!
The dark side is already present. It's not like we're in the middle, in neutral, and we can go either way, it's just a matter of choice and all that. The program is in control.
Compromises of marriage. And if a marriage is based on compromises coming from mutual insecurities, it's destined to fail, though both partners may feel pretty comfortable in it, both getting false securities from each other. As in "I promise her/him anything to keep him/her 'happy'." And thus keeping me as well 'happy'.
Tom is breaking his promise by posting "his promise" on his dozens++ of threads! LOL
Tom promising his "wife" not to post will surely make tom unhappy. An unhappy tom will blame his "wife". His "wife" will surely become resentful and demand a divorce. A divorced tom will free all his time for the creation of new threads.
A clever ploy by tom.
Even if it's real, a divorce would be the right thing. All too often we 'get settled' and then it's over: society has swallowed us. No one should make demands on another, but it starts with the illusion of self-control; from there one starts to attempt to control others as well, for their inner benefits. There are none, but that's the illusion.
And the one giving in to such attempts at control is but encouraging that illusion.
I make no demands of my wife, except to cook, clean and bail me out of jail.
She should be doing it because she wants to, not because you demand of her, and vice-versa.
Wrong book!