So, my girlfriend has gotten pretty mad at me, and has been yelling at me and arguing about the same topic every day. She says that I’m overly obsessed with Ariana grande, and that I talk about her too much and listen to her too often. She says I have little respect for the relationship by mentioning Ari, and she’s told me a few things. She wants me to stop listening to Ariana grande, stop posting about her on otf, stop calling her “my eternal sunshine”, and literally anything that involves her, which is completely unfair! The problem is that she thinks that my relationship with Ari is a joke, and I’m not sure what to do anymore. I’m faced with 2 options. I can admit to cheating on her with Ari, and have a nice life with her. The only downside to this is that I don’t get to see her too often, and that could always be a problem. Then I can choose to break up with Ari, be loyal to my gf, but I can’t listen to Ari or even say “eternal sunshine” anymore. This question has been tearing me apart for days, and I don’t think I can take anymore yelling from her. So, with all this being said, what’s my best bet? Thank u, next for your input, and I love you. I find that whatever decision I choose will leave me in a bad spot, so im asking the very intelligent otf community.
Well, it’s an awfully hard choice. If I stay loyal to my gf, I can’t listen to Ari or talk about her ever again. I can’t even call her “my swexy eternal sunshine sweetener”, which is painful. I would have to call her something basix like “babe”. How lame.
She said she would break up with me if I said “eternal sunshine” again. I almost did when I saw her, but I bit my tongue to stop myself. I suppose I’ll think all of this over for a few days.