what is love ?

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none of you really know love if  you think what you said...unconditionall love is for whomever tht person you love is. if they did something absalutly horrible and you stop loving them that's because they stoppd being themselves AKA the person you love.(unless you already loved a person that was already horrible).)

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I agree and find that to be an astute observation
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I think you have someone very beautiful in your life to know such a truth and I'm glad for you . I do too
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and if you think you loved someone you're wrong, people don't stop loving someone its just they never loved them to begin w/. real love doesn't die.but you can be under the DELUSION that you are in love.That dies.

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I absolutely agree and I feel so in tune with you. Such a beautiful observation. I know that the person that you love you forever will. That's beautiful. 

Yes true love never dies. 

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I kinda felt like a hippie saying all that.

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No not a hippy . You see the nature of reality that's all
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thanks,man

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you didn't love her while she was there?

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Maybe it's all a lie, and maybe nobody cares that much, anyway there are more important issues now, like sending this country and its people to hell, or better yet to let them rest in hell, where they ultimately deserve to be.

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What's more important than love ?
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Probably preachers like you. I'll give you a hint, it has to do with freedome, not religion, not politics, not work or anything else. There's no freedome in this country, and people are to blame, not politicians.

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Okay freedom. And what are you going to do with that freedom?

Tell me honestly . Is there anything more important to you than those in your life that you love ?

Isn't that the same for everyone ?

When we die for our country we don't die for the soil . We die for those we love or the love of mankind .
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No. We have equal rights, we are not equal.

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Sure .

But wait a minute . Why do you care ?

You care because of your love of others . If you didn't love them then you would be happy to ignore their plight .

You know actually I kind of see where you are coming from . Freedom and equality are about more than being nice to people you like . It's about seeing genuine fairness and right .

Still isn't that a sign of being loving?

Is love to do with seeking justice ? Being love ?

Or is the seek for equality purely about empathy ?

I'm not sure if I'm making much sense here .

I guess I see a love within me . That I am in a sense love . But perhaps that's actually just an experience and the truth is why I'm helpful is I'm mindful and when I'm mindful I see the plight of others and have empathy .
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Thank you for engaging me . Interesting to consider the angles .
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I guess that was my interest . What actually is love ?

Sure we know I love this person or that , when we die for a cause though , is that about love or empathy ? Is there a difference?
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I suppose my deep wondering belongs on my what are we thread though .
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Some people believe true love lasts forever . I believe that .

Some people argue that it's impossible because people change .

If you loved them in the past that's just one phase in their life .

To believe in eternal love you necessarily must believe that there is something about a person that's permanent . Never changes .
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But also don't we have an agape love for everyone ? So we can say I'll always love you . I love everybody all the time !!!!