maybe we can wait for the right moment to execute the plan without being suspicious by anyone xd
Would you still act?
First of all I would check if I have enough power to actually have an impact on the problem or at least get it to someone who has, without being noticed. If I have no access to any of the two, my choice is obvious (do nothing and suck it up).
If I have either, I'll try to softly handle it (Anonymously submit proofs to police/authorities). And if I need to get directly involved, I'll ask my parents' opinions vaguely. Not directly tell them since they'll obviously oppose. If I they can afford to transfer me to other school/take responsibility of troubles Im gonna get in from bad guys, I'll do it.
Otherwise, the risks hurt them more than me, so I'll shut up. (Reminder that I did try earlier in a soft manner with anything useful I had.)
What if taking action could also put your family in danger or serious trouble? Would you still do it, or would that change your decision?
Since it's not specified, I'm taking it as a situation where my mok works at a school and principal & higher authorities are getting bribed by rich kids (For changing grades, using banned things at school, buying scholarship certificates, etc).
In such a situation, It's probably not my call. If my parents are in danger, I must tell them the situation and rhe danger we all face. It's completely up to them to take action. If they have any task for me (yes, my parents consider me quite responsible to give me dangerous tasks)... I'll do that. Aside from that, I'm too young/not experienced enough to know the right course of action.
@Vedant_1594 You’re right , if you don’t have either the ability to solve the problem or to escalate it safely, forcing action can backfire. Recognizing limits is not weakness, it’s strategy.
bruh we need ayanokoji here he the only one it solve this matter
All he's gonna say is "as long as it doesn't directly bother me or disturbs my pawn structure (like Karuizawa expulsion for example)... I'll just watch.
@Vedant_1594 You’re right , if you don’t have either the ability to solve the problem or to escalate it safely, forcing action can backfire. Recognizing limits is not weakness, it’s strategy.
You got my point exactly!
@Vedant_1594 You’re right , if you don’t have either the ability to solve the problem or to escalate it safely, forcing action can backfire. Recognizing limits is not weakness, it’s strategy.
You got my point exactly!
Yeshh ✨✨ Anonymous reporting or indirect escalation is usually the safest first step. It creates a record without putting you directly in the line of fire.
I will sleep now and reply tomorrow afternoon.
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For me, it depends. Partially on how bad the thing in question harms the people around me, and partially on how bad it would be if people found out. imo its kinda risk/reward. if it's a major conspiracy to start WWIII and the consequences are that I might not be able to find a job? Yeah, that's worth doing. If it's a petty theft crime ring stealing and reselling tupperware from target, but I would lose everything I ever care about, then I'm not doing anything.
Well what is enough, what is taking action? These are relative, so be more specific before I even answer this.
By “taking action,” I mean exposing, stopping, or going against something harmful happening inside a system. And by “enough,” I mean it affects you morally or personally enough that ignoring it feels wrong, even if it’s safer.
I kept it somewhat open-ended on purpose so people could apply it to different situations.
First of all I would check if I have enough power to actually have an impact on the problem or at least get it to someone who has, without being noticed. If I have no access to any of the two, my choice is obvious (do nothing and suck it up).
If I have either, I'll try to softly handle it (Anonymously submit proofs to police/authorities). And if I need to get directly involved, I'll ask my parents' opinions vaguely. Not directly tell them since they'll obviously oppose. If I they can afford to transfer me to other school/take responsibility of troubles Im gonna get in from bad guys, I'll do it.
Otherwise, the risks hurt them more than me, so I'll shut up. (Reminder that I did try earlier in a soft manner with anything useful I had.)
So in the end, does morality depend on whether you can afford the consequences?
Like if two people both know something wrong is happening, but only one has enough money/support/safety to fight back… does that make the poorer or weaker person morally justified in staying silent?
For me, it depends. Partially on how bad the thing in question harms the people around me, and partially on how bad it would be if people found out. imo its kinda risk/reward. if it's a major conspiracy to start WWIII and the consequences are that I might not be able to find a job? Yeah, that's worth doing. If it's a petty theft crime ring stealing and reselling tupperware from target, but I would lose everything I ever care about, then I'm not doing anything.
That makes sense, but where do you personally draw the line between “worth the risk” and “not worth it”?
Because a lot of harmful systems survive specifically because each individual problem seems “too small” for someone to sacrifice their life over.
@Vedant_1594 You’re right , if you don’t have either the ability to solve the problem or to escalate it safely, forcing action can backfire. Recognizing limits is not weakness, it’s strategy.
True, but couldn’t that same mindset also become an excuse people use to justify doing nothing?
A lot of systems stay corrupt because everyone waits until they have enough power, safety, or certainty before acting.
Is this a situation that is actually happening? If we knew then you could probably get better advice
Is this a situation that is actually happening? If we knew then you could probably get better advice
Not directly. It’s more of a hypothetical moral dilemma. But I think the discussion gets more interesting when people imagine a situation that could realistically happen in their own life.
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Well what is enough, what is taking action? These are relative, so be more specific before I even answer this.