hi - I had not meant, at all: 'Why that approach?' I was just trying to understand for myself what exactly you were meaning, for i could not see the logic of it .. the truth of it, that we are in reality, an illusion. So, it was more like trying to reach for what could bridge the gap for acceptance of this, as actuality. -And so, it was a qu. for clarity? -If it was reality - the reservation i have is, why does life look like 'this' then ? Why, do i 'feel' the, force-field of the earth .. why do my feet stop abruptly at the top of solid ground, why is an embrace so melodious an experience - if we are really an illusion. How is it, there is all this texture to our lives. -(Does this make sense ?)
I definitely understand what you're asking. There might be no more reason for existence to look like this than for existence to look any other way. As for the nature of the self--of what an individual is--I have no idea. I have a fun quasi-theory, but empirically I don't know of any way to know. My whole argument is that how 'real' it is is a fun and interesting question with an inconsequential answer.
I think there is good and bad. So for example it is wrong for an adult to abuse a child or animal.
Within that there may be some grey areas, and some mitigation, but I say it is wrong.