Dek2000 ?....Are you having second thoughts ?....
dating for chess players?

Dek2000 came to chess.com just to post this forum. Seeing that what everyone has posted is insatisfactory to his liking, he has ventured elsewhere to his journey in nerdom to find a mate.

I have deduced that Superqueen is in elementary/middle school, with much evidence in support of the former.....
Correct.
I am a minor, so stay away pedos.

I have deduced that Superqueen is in elementary/middle school, with much evidence in support of the former.....
Correct.
I am a minor, so come forth pedos.

He's not bad-looking....I'd like to see his smile.
UK. Maybe that's why he didn't smile...

Hi ghostess Lola, more power to you! My chat up line is 'hey babe, I'm a 1400elo!!!' which wouldn't impress a Polgar...

the first step to dating is asking the girl out.
my suggestion is you approach the girl and have a conversation with her.
if the conversation is going well, then you can consider to escalate and perhaps ask her to go for coffee or something fun.
if the conversation is not going well or she doesn't seem interested, then you should walk away and move onto to another girl you are interested in.
i don't recommend trying to find women at chess tournaments. go to places where women will be like at the mall or a bookstore or maybe at the bowling alley or a baseball stadium, etc.

Brilliant. This site would be called Chess Match. I got married from a dating site. We flew from NY to Vegas to get married. Marriage lasted 3 weeks.
When people asked me why 3 weeks, the answer was we had nothing in common, well almost nothing as we were too busy taken care of other important parts of a marriage Maybe chess could have saved the marriage so I wouldn't be waxing the bishop so often.
True story. Got married by James Brown. Or at least it looked like him.
I'm begining to feel somewhat dated.