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Anyway, I would also like to have anonymous report abuse. If I feel that a member is abusive or cheating--i would like to be able to be anonymous with my reports (just so there will be no discrimination against members)
Your abuse report is confidential in that it is only seen by the staff dealing with it. Provided that you don't complain about anyone publicly in the forums (which is against the site rules anyway), no ordinary chess.com member will be aware that you have made a complaint.
It would not be practical to allow anonymous complaints. In order to examine the evidence (in game chat, or a message sent to you - or a comment made about you in the forums), the alleged victim is necessarily identified.
Also, it would not be sensible to allow anonymity. This would encourage some members to blacken other people's reputations unfairly without any consequences to themselves.
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