Either you guys are of opinion I think too simple or am too complicated.
The truth is: I am just like you! A regular average guy, trying to get good at chess! Yet, unlike some other chess players, I want to win in a fair way. My questions asked above may seem dubious in that manner but it is something else than tapping with your fingers on the table to make your opponent lose his six deep analysis he was obviously in. Or kicking somebody hard against his shin and telling him right away is was an accident. Or putting the table such that the setting sun shines annoyingly in your opponents face.
How can you see from your opponent that he allows tactical motives?
This question is somewhat related to these questions:
How can you see that your opponent plays sharply?
Is playing sharply a sign of allowing tactical motives?